Are you being pushed?More than 40 percent of unmarried people are urged to get married during the Spring Festival, according to a survey

2022-07-04 0 By

On February 7, Baihe Jiayuan Group, Nanfang Daily and South + jointly released the 2022 Spring Festival urge marriage research report “Are you living by the Spring Festival urge marriage” tiger?(hereinafter referred to as the Report).More than 40 percent of unmarried people were urged to get married during this year’s Spring Festival, according to the report.With the increase of age, unmarried men and women will inevitably encounter continuous urging marriage during the Spring Festival, in addition to parents, relatives, friends, teachers will become concerned about the crowd.According to the report, parents are the most concerned about their children, with 92 percent of unmarried men and 81 percent of unmarried women being asked about their marriage during the Spring Festival.In addition, other relatives, friends, classmates and so on also joined in the “push marriage” army.Parents regard their children’s marriage and love as their own responsibility, hoping for their children’s happiness and fulfillment. “Urging marriage” is just an expression of love.For this reason, parents are the biggest source of pressure for unmarried children to get married.However, compared with their parents, unmarried people do not care about their relatives and friends urging them to get married.As the report shows, parental concern is the most important source of stress for unmarried people.Only 19 percent of men and 33 percent of women felt pressure from relatives such as aunts and aunts.Nowadays, with the constant change of love and marriage ideas, people are more in pursuit of independent love and marriage. They no longer follow the cognition of love and marriage of the previous generation and do not want their love and marriage choices to be interfered by a third party.More than 40 percent of unmarried women said they were offended by friends and family pushing them to marry, but only 15 percent of men said the same.In addition, 50 percent of unmarried men and 40 percent of unmarried women expressed feelings of uncertainty and indifference.People have independent cognition of love and marriage and have the right to decide their own marriage without being affected by external factors.Even under pressure from parents and elders, most unmarried men and women will not be swayed and thus accelerate their relationship or marriage, accounting for 60 percent.In the face of “urging marriage”, unmarried people have summed up the coping experience, through voting heart, change the topic and other methods to deal with.According to the report, 35 percent of men said they were not in a hurry, while 29 percent of women said they were positive, but there would be no substantive change.In addition, “show determination” and “will actively love, marriage,” is also 27 percent of men and 20 percent of women, coping with parents, elders “urged marriage” important skills.The original intention of parents’ urging is to make their children happy. Unmarried men and women also understand their parents’ love behavior, believing that parents and elders are for their own sake.Others say, “Marriage is not a joke, you can’t force it out,” and “I am used to being urged to get married on holidays.”Disclaimer: This article is reproduced for the purpose of conveying more information.If the source is wrong or violated your legitimate rights and interests, please contact the author with proof of ownership, we will promptly correct, delete, thank you.Email address: newmedia@xxcb.cn